It’s painful to watch someone hurt people, lie, manipulate, deceive, and seemingly continue with their life without consequence. If you have ever been on the receiving end of abuse, you probably understand exactly what I mean. Sometimes the aftermath feels almost as painful as the abuse itself because you are left carrying the consequences of things you did not do. At the same time, the person responsible appears to carry on as though nothing happened.
I have wrestled with this more than I would like to admit. I have asked God how someone can cause so much damage and seemingly prosper while the person they harmed is left picking up the pieces. I have wondered why doing the right thing can feel so costly, while doing the wrong thing seems to cost someone nothing. There have been times when I have looked at circumstances in front of me and thought, God, where are You in this? Where is justice? How long will You allow this to continue?
It is hard to watch evil continue when there seems to be no recourse. It is hard when you have told the truth and still feel unheard. It is hard when you have done everything you know to do, and nothing seems to change. It is hard to watch someone continue forward seemingly untouched while you are still dealing with the emotional, physical, relational, and financial consequences of what they have done.
I was thinking about all of this recently when I read Psalm 37, and I felt like God was reminding me of something I desperately needed to hear.
“Do not fret because of evildoers.”
David needed to write those words for a reason. Watching people do wrong and seemingly prosper because of it can consume you. You begin watching for consequences. You wonder when they’ll finally be exposed. You wait for someone else to see what you see. You become frustrated when systems fail, when people minimize what happened, or when accountability does not come nearly as quickly as you believe it should.
Psalm 37 does not pretend that those circumstances do not exist. In fact, the entire Psalm acknowledges the painful reality that people can do wrong and appear to prosper for a time. It tells us not to mistake what we are seeing right now for the end of the story.
That distinction has become incredibly important to me.
There is a difference between someone getting away with something for a time and someone getting away with it forever.
I cannot promise you when accountability will come or what it will look like. Sometimes it comes through the legal system. Sometimes the truth eventually exposes itself. Sometimes consequences arrive quietly in ways we will never see. And sometimes justice doesn’t happen the way or within the timeframe we desperately wanted it to.
But I believe wholeheartedly that God is just, and I believe that nothing is hidden from Him.
God knows what happened behind closed doors. He knows what was said when nobody else was listening. He knows what was intentional. He knows what was manipulated. He knows what was hidden, deleted, denied, or rewritten. He knows the difference between someone’s public image and their private behaviour. He knows the complete story when everyone else has only been given pieces.
That matters to me because there are situations in life where you may never be able to make another human being understand the entire story.
God already does.
Psalm 37:5–6 says, “Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him, and He will act. He will bring forth your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noonday.”
Those words hit differently when you are waiting for justice.
I have read them when my faith was strong, and when I was exhausted and struggling to believe them. I have prayed them when everything in me wanted God to hurry up and do something because I could not understand why He was allowing something so wrong to continue.
I am learning that trusting God with justice does not mean that I stop pursuing accountability. It does not mean that I remain silent about abuse. It does not mean that I stop documenting, reporting, setting boundaries, protecting myself, or using the systems available to me. Trusting God does not require passivity.
It means I refuse to allow another person’s wrongdoing to become the centre of my life.
At some point, pursuing justice and becoming consumed by injustice can start to look very similar, and I have had to ask God to guard my heart there continually. I can pursue truth without becoming obsessed with watching someone fall. I can want accountability without wanting revenge. I can ask God for justice without telling Him exactly how He has to deliver it.
That is not always easy.
When someone has taken enough from you already, the last thing you want to give them is your peace.
This is where Psalm 37 keeps bringing me back. God tells me to trust Him, keep doing good, commit my way to Him, and let Him deal with what I cannot control.
That does not mean evil wins. It means evil does not get to turn me into something I was never created to become.
If you are watching someone who hurt you seemingly prosper while you are still dealing with the consequences of what they did, I understand how painful that is. If you are wondering why accountability has not come, I understand that too. If you have prayed, God, how much longer?, you are not alone.
But please remember that you are standing in the middle of the story. What you see today is not necessarily what you will see tomorrow.
A lack of immediate consequences does not mean God approves of what happened. A delay in justice does not mean God has forgotten you. Someone appearing to prosper does not mean they have escaped accountability.
I do not know exactly how every wrong will be made right. I am still waiting for God to redeem some things in my own life. I still do not understand some injustices, and there are days when I have to ask Him to help my unbelief because what I see does not look anything like the justice I have prayed for.
But Psalm 37 reminded me that I don’t have to see the ending yet to trust the One who does.
People who abuse others may believe they have gotten away with it. Maybe for a season, from where we are standing, it even appears that they have.
But temporary freedom from consequences is not the same thing as escaping accountability forever.
God sees what other people don’t. God knows what happened behind closed doors. God knows the truth even when other people do not.
So I will continue telling the truth. I will continue pursuing what is right. I will continue asking for justice while refusing to become consumed by revenge. And when I have done everything I know to do, I will place what remains into God’s hands.
Because evil does not get the final word.
God does.
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